近日因为写文章的事情，和博导沟通的比较多，或许因为在交流中还存在一些问题，导师当天就果断分享（教育）了几点，其中，我想我应该触犯了几点。
建议毕竟是从导师的角度出发，所以对学生的要求自然会多一些，因此，对于想要从与导师沟通中最大化成效的同学来说，不失为一个好的工具包。
好了，开始学英语，中文简单说明一下（信、达、雅为翻译之要义，为简要起见，我就直接跳到“雅”这个层面。）
How to get the best supervision for your PhD?
Supervisor-supervisee relationship in a PhD is very important. Here are 10 things you can do on your part to get the best out of your PhD supervisors.
𝟏. 𝐒𝐡𝐨𝐰, 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐭𝐞𝐥𝐥: Instead of telling your supervisor what you have worked on, show him/her the progress. For example, instead of saying that I have read 5 papers, you should say here are the critical summaries and 5 takeaways from these 5 papers that I think are useful for my research in these ways.
成果第一，不要说做了什么，把做好的东西拿出来
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𝟐. 𝐓𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐥𝐲: If your supervisor criticizes you, actually he/she is not criticizing you but your work. This criticism is only for the purpose of improving your research and helping you to succeed.
面对批评，导师对事不对人（对人也正常，谁都有情绪，理解万岁）。
𝟑. 𝐒𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐦𝐞𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐚 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐮𝐭𝐞𝐬: Send upfront the points about which you want to talk about in the meeting. Similarly, share what has been discussed in the meeting. It will only take around 10 minutes of your time.
会议总结，记住自己不仅仅是个参会者，还是个会议秘书。
𝟒. 𝐀𝐬𝐤, 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐮𝐦𝐞: Do not assume outcomes from your supervisors. Instead, ask in a polite way. For example, do not assume that your supervisors will not allow you to apply for a research internship. Ask them.
多问，别老瞎想。
𝟓. 𝐎𝐰𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐏𝐡𝐃: Your PhD is your project. After around 6 months, you are likely more expert on the topic than your supervisors. They are there to guide you through the process.
PhD是你在读，你才是专家，当然，导师会给你领路。
𝟔. 𝐑𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦: Supervisors have many things on their plates. It’s possible that their minds skip something. Give them a software reminder if they need to get back to you on something such as feedback on a paper.
导师比你更忙（不然不是你导师），有事要不时地善意提醒。
𝟕. 𝐒𝐞𝐞𝐤 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐥𝐲 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤: Sending a paper draft to a supervisor one day before a submission deadline is a mistake on your end. Even if he/she provides the feedback, it might be shallow. Give them time.
交作业给导师留点余量，不要卡最后时刻，导师很辛苦。
𝟖. 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐜𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐲: Communicate clearly to your supervisors about any obstacles you are facing and any expectations you have. They have the experience to guide you accordingly but first, they need to know.
想要答案，问题先说明白，关键要“说”得让导师明白。
𝟗. 𝐃𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐬: If your supervisors have corrected you about something, try not to repeat it. It will give them the impression that you did not value their feedback. If you don’t agree, discuss it with them.
不要在同一条沟摔两次（如果要，有胆量的话和导师沟通好。
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𝟏𝟎. 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭, 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭: Doesn’t matter how good or bad your relationship is with your supervisor, always respect them. I have hardly seen anyone successful who does not respect his/her teachers and supervisors.
尊重，尊重，尊重，因为不尊重，就拿不到PhD。
以上，最好记住，以备不时之需。
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